Monday, May 28, 2012
A lot to say....
Wow I can't believe this thing is still up and running.
Going to do a fast run down of the past year:
January, February, March of 2011 i really don't remember.
April: my grandfather pasted way...b/c we didn't want to be disrespectful and cause a scene we didn't go. My grandmother agreed. And then April 27th was the worse tornado outbreak I have ever seen.
May and June my grandmother was getting worse. Her dimentia was taking her away from us more and more each day.
July my 14 yr old cat Luke pasted away. And my dog/child Bitty was sick also
August about a week after Luke pasted Bitty had to be put to sleep..worse day of my life..and I honestly thought 2011 couldn't get any worse.
September large tree fell on my house. Had what happened typed and then it just disappeared.
October grandmother fell 3 times...one 911 call and 13 stitches later...she was doing ok and then my mom woke up and needed emergency surgery..she had 5 diverticulitis spot in her small intestine removed.. 13 inches.
November we had to put my grandmother in a nursing home...worse but best thing we could have ever done. Middle of November grandmother send to a hospital to get her meds adjusted. She hit a staff member up side the head with her shoe. Late November My great aunt Helen died...that was very rough on my family. Thanksgiving dinner was at the nursing home...gross food but able to be with grandmother. And she was not having a good day that day.
December was better..Christmas was better until we got done with lunch..grandmother turned her back on us and wouldn't talk to us..so we left. This was also the Christmas we were not going to do present, didn't have any money...at the last minute at Kara's house she said open this door and there were presents I was like a little kid..that was the best surprise ever.
January my sisters birthday grandmother had to go back to the hospital for another med adjustment. This time she hit someone up side the head with her purse. We now have her purse. We were afraid they were going to kick her out. They didn't.
February and March I don't really remember except I turned 32. Ummm and we used all of my grandmothers money and we didn't know how we were going to pay for her room anymore. And by this time she is 100% dependent on the nursing home staff.
April: Mom talked to my grandmothers brothers and they were able to help us pay for her $6000 a month room.
So that was taken care of we have been worried about mom..she is depressed and forgetting to do stuff...Kara and I have been trying to help but sometimes mom won't accept it.
May my grandmothers annuity came in and that paid for her room...we have been trying to get her on Medicaid for months but the annuity and her houses in Anniston have been hindering us. So that is one out of the way. Then my great uncle Dorris' pasted away. My first military funeral..wow..my cousin David was flown in from South Korea as my uncle asked that he play taps at his funeral.
Now that it's almost June we have to come up with another $6000 and I'm afraid we have nothing left.
So that is what has been going on with me.
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